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Understanding ADHD: A Guide for Parents

Writer: Dawn Torpey
Dawn Torpey
Oct 6
4 min read

Updated: 7 days ago

ADHD Awareness Month


Understanding ADHD: A Guide for Parents



For many parents, hearing that their child may have ADHD can bring a mix of emotions - questions, concerns, and sometimes relief at finally having an explanation for challenges their child has been experiencing. ADHD is one of the most common neurodevelopmental conditions affecting children. According to the CDC, about 11% of children in the U.S. have been diagnosed with it. Understanding ADHD can help parents identify appropriate supports and strategies for their child.


What is ADHD?


Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is a neurodevelopmental disorder (also called a brain-based disorder) that is usually diagnosed in childhood. It affects skills related to attention, impulse control, activity level, organization, and executive functioning. ADHD can look very different from one child to the next. Some children are primarily inattentive, whereas others are hyperactive and impulsive. Many children experience a combination of symptoms. 


ADHD is not caused by laziness, poor parenting skills, or a lack of intelligence or motivation. A child may understand what they are expected to do but have difficulty getting it done. For example, a child may know that homework has to be completed but can't get started, stay on task, organize materials, manage time, or remember to turn the assignment in. 


Common Signs to Look For


Children can get distracted, forget things, or have difficulty sitting still from time to time. What sets ADHD apart is that these difficulties are severe enough to impact daily functioning, and development. We now know that ADHD is not something that all children “grow out of.” It is estimated that about 60% of children diagnosed with ADHD continue to experience symptoms as adults.


Parents may notice signs such as:


Attention and Organization

  • Often losing school supplies, homework, or personal belongings

  • Difficulty following through on instructions

  • Seeming not to listen when spoken to directly

  • Becoming distracted easily

  • Making careless mistakes

  • Having difficulty organizing schoolwork or personal items

  • Struggling to start or finish tasks

  • Forgetting daily responsibilities

  • Having trouble managing time


Hyperactivity and Impulsivity

  • Frequently fidgeting or having difficulty remaining seated

  • Talking excessively

  • Interrupting conversations or activities

  • Having trouble waiting for a turn

  • Acting before thinking about the consequences

  • Frequently moving from one activity to another

  • Seeming to be “always on the go”


Emotional and Executive Functioning Challenges

  • Managing frustration

  • Having trouble shifting from one activity to another

  • Regulating strong emotions

  • Planning ahead

  • Breaking large tasks into smaller steps

  • Remembering information long enough to use it

  • Getting started on tasks

  • Monitoring their own work


You Are Not Alone


The good news is that ADHD is manageable, and children can learn strategies that help them succeed.



How is ADHD Diagnosed?


There is no single test that diagnoses ADHD. Instead, ADHD is diagnosed through a comprehensive evaluation that includes a child’s developmental history, behavior, functioning, and symptoms in different settings. A professional evaluating ADHD may gather information from several sources including:

  • Parents or caregivers

  • Teachers

  • The child or adolescent

  • School records

  • Developmental and medical history

  • Behavioral rating scales and questionnaires

  • Psychological and educational testing


How is ADHD Managed?


There is no one approach that works for every child with ADHD. Management is individualized based on the child’s age, symptoms, strengths, needs, and the way ADHD is affecting daily life. Supports may include a combination of:

  • School-Based Supports

  • Behavioral and Skills-Based Strategies

  • Counseling or Behavioral Intervention

  • Medication (Choices include: stimulants, non-stimulants, and antidepressants)



ADHD is more than simply being distracted or overactive. It can affect a child’s ability to manage attention, impulses, emotions, organization, and everyday responsibilities.


If you are noticing persistent difficulties, you do not have to figure it out yourself. Seeking an evaluation can provide valuable information about your child’s strengths and challenges and can help determine what supports may be appropriate. 


Let’s Connect:


We welcome the opportunity to speak with you about your concerns regarding your child potentially having ADHD and about whether a private evaluation may be the right choice for you. Please contact us by phone or email, or schedule an appointment on our website: www.testingspecialistsnj.com.



Dawn Torpey, Ed.S.   (201) 248 0147 dawn.torpey27@gmail.com


Expert Support for Your Family


At Psychological and Educational Testing Specialists, Debbi and Dawn bring over 25 years of experience each in helping families navigate ADHD and other challenges experienced by children and teens. We provide kind, caring, and expert evaluations and can help you understand the specific teaching strategies and accommodations your child needs to truly thrive in the classroom and at home.



References

American Academy of Pediatrics. “Clinical Practice Guideline for the Diagnosis, Evaluation, and Treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in Children and Adolescents.” Pediatrics, vol. 144, no. 4, 2019, e20192528, https://doi.org/10.1542/peds.2019-2528.

American Psychiatric Association. Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders: DSM-5-TR. 5th ed., text rev., American Psychiatric Association Publishing, 2022.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. “Data and Statistics on ADHD.” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, https://www.cdc.gov/adhd/data/index.html.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. “Symptoms and Diagnosis of ADHD.” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, https://www.cdc.gov/adhd/signs-symptoms/index.html.

Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. “Treatment of ADHD.” Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, https://www.cdc.gov/adhd/treatment/index.html.

Danielson, Melissa L., et al. “ADHD Prevalence Among U.S. Children and Adolescents in 2022: Diagnosis, Severity, Co-Occurring Disorders, and Treatment.” Journal of Clinical Child & Adolescent Psychology, vol. 53, no. 3, 2024, pp. 343–360. https://doi.org/10.1080/15374416.2024.2338174.

National Institute of Mental Health. “Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder: What You Need to Know.” National Institute of Mental Health, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/attention-deficit-hyperactivity-disorder-adhd.

Reuben, Cynthia, and Nazik Elgaddal. “Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in Children Ages 5–17 Years: United States, 2020–2022.” NCHS Data Brief, no. 499, Mar. 2024, National Center for Health Statistics, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db499.htm.

Wolraich, Mark L., et al. “Clinical Practice Guideline for the Diagnosis, Evaluation, and Treatment of Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder in Children and Adolescents.”


 
 
 

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